Tuesday, August 27, 2013



Yes this is another Build about 3/4ths! But not like you are expecting…

I LOVE and adore 3/4ths. And let me tell you why….

I must admit, like most women when confronted with a “requirement” to adhere, to become part of my beloved nation, I had issues. It’s a trigger for female 85ers in the wilderness of North America. We don’t like to be told what to do or what we can’t do. Women can have and do it all. And if we desire to be savage, that’s a choice we make…. Yada yada yada….. So I was a bit pissed going into this.

My educator at the time was a man. And unless a man is gay or in the women’s clothing business, he really isn’t going to have a True Understanding of female customs of haberdashery. Men know what they want to see on a woman, but not necessarily the whats and hows. I was having a conversation with the 7 about my cousin who wanted me to make her a pair of pants but claimed she didn’t know her measurements. Precise said, just look in the waist and that will tell you how big her waist measurement is. I just looked at him blankly. It took me a minute to realize that he didn’t know women’s clothes didn’t run that way. Yes he doesn’t have sisters or daughters, but he had a mother and women in his past. I’m certain he has purchased clothing for women before, but still he didn’t know. It’s crazy unrealistic to expect a man to understand certain aspects of womanhood because they don’t care. Even if they are God. Yes, I said it.

To bring degrees in this build, a portion of 3:14 that says God chooses for himself the part of the Earth that he wants and discards the part he doesn’t want. Just because the god discards it doesn’t make it Universal trash. One person’s trash is another’s treasure. You cannot expect for how you dress to be a priority to anyone but you. As are most things in life.

Once I realized that my at the time educator (not Precise) didn’t have a clue to what he was telling me with regard to my attire…. Advising me to develop a work uniform?.... I turned to the Earths. A lot of Earths don’t get this Culture. A lot of them only do this because of a man. So they dress how their man wants them to dress. Not necessarily displaying 3/4ths. OR… they are being taught by a man who is not their man who advises them to look like a hobo. What does he care? Being Earth is not synonymous with being bummy.

Since my hobby is sewing and I was already making most of my clothes, I just added an extra inch or two to whatever I was making. I’m short; most of my clothes need to be hemmed. A few inches is usually enough to make sure I’m refined; and sometimes not that. Is it a big deal? Absolutely not. Is it hard? Emphatically No. the only thing that draws questions is my headwrap. But again, since I make most of my clothes. I automatically make a headwrap to go with every outfit. When folks see you in a Top-to-Bottom matching outfit, they don’t think that I am different from them. So displaying 3/4ths is NOT hard. And if you think it is, you’re wrong. Folks find a way to do what’s important to them.

This is VERY important. Pay attention….. I still get as much attention now as I did when I was a savagely dressing 85er. And I use the word ‘savage’ loosely. I never really put my goodies out there like that. Though now I get BETTER attention. Men still tell me they find me attractive. But instead of them yelling it from across the road with the “Hey mama you looking good” or “Walk that walk baby” or making some kind of vulgar offer…. I get “Ma’am you look really nice today” and “I wanted to let you know that you are very attractive.” Who wouldn’t prefer that to the former? There is not a day that someone... male and/or female… doesn’t compliment me.

So for you ladies who claim that 3/4th is impossible and incompatible with your lifestyle….. You’re full of it.